Folks,
An interesting discussion-if a bit heated.
blacknwhite wrote:...A seller should NEVER come back and tell you they needed more money than what was originally published on their auction page, for shipping or otherwise...
Well said, Bob, I haven't sold anything through my own account on the 'Bay, but I have helped a friend and he has eaten extra shipping charges a number of times.
EdisonSquirrel wrote:......Larry, there are only two options at your disposal to avoid unwarranted shipping charges. The first is to read the shipping instructions carefully and bid accordingly; the second is to make your purchases from well-known, trusted sources....
I agree with you, Rocky, that is all any of us can do, we can still get the occasional burn, but it's less likely following your options.
EdisonSquirrel wrote:....I understand your gripe, Larry. I've often refrained from bidding on records due to excessive shipping charges. An honest seller will seek only to cover the cost of postage and materials in his shipping charges, while a dishonest seller will intentionally inflate the numbers to increase his profit....
Shipping and handling is only legitimate if it covers and is applied to the costs associated with packing and mailing an item-it's not that complicated. The boxes and bubble-pack cost money too. IMHO the "cost" of one's time to pack and mail the item should not be passed on as a "charge" time is the cost of doing business, any business it should be built into the original cost of the item.
gramophoneshane wrote:.....Now days I keep a little book with the names of sellers that have ripped me off, and I'll avoid buying from them unless it's something I desperately want, and even then I wont bid quite as high as I normally would because I know they will overcharge the next time too.
I also make use of the star ratings for postage costs, and mention in the feedback text that I was charged far more for postage than it actually cost....
Shane, I have always kept a double ledger for my E-Bay purchases. Any seller who I feel wronged me gets a red mark and it's my own fault if I get burned by them again!
brianu wrote:...I also agree that some sellers' postage charges can be excessive. but complaining or ranting about it after the fact doesn't seem to accomplish anything, which is why I just don't get these threads...
Brian, I remember complaining to my mother one time about something and she angrily told me there was nothing she could do about. Without even thinking about it I said to her I didn't want her to do anything about it, I just wanted someone to listen and care-call it a compatriot placebo.
brianu wrote:if you can't afford it, you can't afford it, and if you don't agree with a seller's charges, philosophies, whatever, on principal, then just don't do business with him/her.
All things being equal-I agree with the above 100%, Brian.
In this instance it certainly seems the seller was either trying to get as much as possible out of Larry or he/she was having difficulty with the E-Bay system. (I had a seller who had a very difficult time adjusting the shipping costs when to new PayPal only set-up first can into being. It took both of us to figure it out.) I'm pleased to hear things are getting straightened out Larry.
estott wrote:A bit off topic, but I've always been a bit shocked at the amount of sellers who use Priority Mail envelopes and boxes as a source of free packing material.
My friend Stan just picked up a Priority package at the P.O. Upon opening the box we saw the inside had "Priority" printed on it as well. No more recycling Priority boxes I guess!

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larryh wrote:So it pays to ask in most cases.
Right you are, Larry-It never hurts to ask!
bart1927 wrote:Fortunately, most sellers I have dealt with on Ebay were honest.
Ditto, Bart, all in all I've had a wonderful experience on the 'Bay. I've found some fantastic sellers who take care of their customers. (In fact one of them is a member here-not that I want to drop any names.......
Michael, If only E-Bay were run like a supermarket! It is more reliant on the honor system than any legal brick & mortar business that I have experienced.
I think we need to remember two competing aphorisms when we discuss E-Bay, Craigslist, &c.;
Caveat Emptor
&
The Golden Rule
Regards,
John