Domenic Dibernardo RIP
Posted: Mon May 27, 2024 9:41 am
Domenic passed away last week: https://www.arbormemorial.ca/en/highlan ... 24233.html
A great guy, and a real character. While he was still mentally alert, we would talk almost every week. Then, about two years ago, the phone calls became a real struggle. A very, very sad way to go for such an active mind.
A short story: about 6 or 7 years ago, at Union, he wanted me to buy a particular music box that I had little interest in. But he persisted, and at the end of the show he just told me "take it, pay me after you sell it". OK, the deal was done, but when I got home I thought about it some more and just mailed him a check. He called me a week later and said I had shortchanged him by $1,000. We debated the issue, and I gave him the benefit of the doubt (even though I knew I was right) and sent him another check. Well, don't you know, he called me a week later and said "I was wrong, I found a note in my desk with the agreed price of the music box, and you were right all along". He never cashed the second check I sent him and proved to me that not only was he an honest man, but a man big enough to admit his own mistake, ex-post-facto.
The hobby, and the world, has lost a fine person.
Raphael
A great guy, and a real character. While he was still mentally alert, we would talk almost every week. Then, about two years ago, the phone calls became a real struggle. A very, very sad way to go for such an active mind.
A short story: about 6 or 7 years ago, at Union, he wanted me to buy a particular music box that I had little interest in. But he persisted, and at the end of the show he just told me "take it, pay me after you sell it". OK, the deal was done, but when I got home I thought about it some more and just mailed him a check. He called me a week later and said I had shortchanged him by $1,000. We debated the issue, and I gave him the benefit of the doubt (even though I knew I was right) and sent him another check. Well, don't you know, he called me a week later and said "I was wrong, I found a note in my desk with the agreed price of the music box, and you were right all along". He never cashed the second check I sent him and proved to me that not only was he an honest man, but a man big enough to admit his own mistake, ex-post-facto.
The hobby, and the world, has lost a fine person.
Raphael