
I assume your 78 "standard stylus" is in the 3 mil range, right?
DDs can sometimes play best with a .7 mil elliptical (LP) stylus, sometimes a much larger stylus (I find the 3.5, 3.8 or 4.0 all useful at different times with DDs).
You'll find Pathés are much the same story, although I start at 2.5 mil and work my way up from there. The largest stylus I have is a 7.0 recommended by Expert for Pathés and other verticals yet even that has trouble with them sometimes. Since most people aren't too interested in investing thousands into custum styli, I'd suggest using what you have, honestly, unless you really have to have the most perfect possible sound.
The bottom line is, there is no real guide here, I've got enough different styli here that I can usually get good sound from almost anything, but sometimes that involves trying 12 different sizes by the time I get good results and by that point, I don't want to hear the record any longer!

Sean